Who's driving your life

Driving a car is a perfect metaphor for going through life. Someone who controls the speed and direction of the car is said to be that cars driver. But, aren't you the driver of your life? You control the speed and direction of your life. You are either paying attention or are distracted. You can blame the other cars on the road for your speed or direction but it's not like they are controlling your car. You are. You make adjustments for others, don't want to be in an accident, cause damage, or hurt anyone. Without the acknowledgement of being in control of your life, it becomes easy to blame others. They did this to me, They made me. It's their fault. You might as well be in the back seat of your own car. Take the wheel. Take control. Be responsible.